ThatKinky.App is a private space to map your kinks. Go it alone to know yourself, or pair up with a partner to see where you overlap. Chat with a wider community of solos and duets whenever you like.
18+ only. Private by design. Solo or duet — your call.
Build a private profile, rate the full catalog, journal your limits and turn-ons, and get AI ideas tuned to just you. Pair up later without losing anything.
Invite your partner with a code. Compare ratings side by side, see your live compatibility, and plan shared ideas — hard limits stay hard limits.
Score hundreds of kinks — love, curious, soft limit, hard no. Yours by default; shared only if you pair up.
In duet mode, a live compatibility heatmap surfaces the things you're both excited about.
AI reads your data — solo or paired — and suggests fresh ideas that fit. Never anything flagged as off-limits.
A shared chat for everyone on ThatKinky.App. Solo and duet badges make it clear who you're talking to.
Export or wipe your data anytime. Leave a duet and everything you rated comes with you into solo.
Plus is $3.49/mo and unlocks the AI for both partners in a duet. Everything else stays free.
Free forever for the essentials. Upgrade when you want the AI.
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Your ratings are yours. In solo mode nobody else sees them. In duet mode they're shared only with the one partner you invite — no one else. Hard limits are hard limits: the AI is never allowed to suggest anything close to them. Leave a duet anytime and your data follows you.